My Island.

12 May 2009

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desirefulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.. They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real.
But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

how true. how true.
so people can be in your life for a reason. some for a season. some for a lifetime.
however, there are people who can be in ur life for a reason and season, and the best few can be in your life for a reason, season and a lifetime.
That is what I am looking for in the relationship with people. I have friends who come for a reason and when the reasons are "used up" they go. I have friends whom I call friends just for a season. when the season ends, they become my aquiantance. I have friends who are here with me for a reason and a season, but perhaps when there's no longer any reason, and the season is over, they will take their leave. Right now I feel most of us are in each other's lives for a reason and a season. I pray we will all move on into a relationship that is called a lifetime.
Many of us have seen each other grow since our pri sch days, and now most of us are already 18! From all those childish thinking such us chasing certain idols (F4, 5566 etc), our topics have changed to learning driving, earning pocket money, relationships and even our future careers. Amazing.
I thank God for those who are still with me from a child to now a young lady (:
how cool will it be to realise the people whom u are sharing your retirement plans with are the same people whom you shared about how much you idolise F4!haha
I'm looking forward for that day to come, for i wanna know at the end of the day, who actually mark their words when they say "Friends Forever".

a reason, a season or a lifetime?

for you, a lifetime doesn't seem possible.
but thanks for the being here for a reason, and for the season.
though i feel that's the past, but it was the best season for me. (:

5/12/2009